Ah… the sound of… quiet. As a mom to a little one this is a rare treat! My six month old can’t speak words yet but she has certainly found her voice.
I’ve learned that instead of stressing when it seems like the morning has been chaotic, sometimes it’s best to simply put work aside and make my baby girl #1 for a while. Maybe that’s an impromptu walk or reading some books – whatever keeps her happy. When work seems overwhelming it’s important to realize how lucky I am to be able to stay at home and have those little moments with Reagan.
Working from home requires serious time management. I don’t plan my day by the hour, I plan it by what Reagan is up to and how long things will keep her busy. The bouncer and the walker are usually good for a half hour so I can get some Facebook posts scheduled. A bottle might last for 10 minutes which is perfect for switching laundry over or vacuuming the living area. Do any moms actually have a set schedule? I am amazed at those who do! Don’t get me wrong, I know Reagan has a routine at this point – she eats twice before we start our day, again after her nap, she usually poops somewhere in the middle etc. and that’s good enough for me.
When nap time finally rolls around, I take full advantage of however long that may be. I try saving all of my tedious work for nap time – any writing, blogging, phone calls or post planning. Things that can be interrupted like designing new graphics or checking email can be done anytime. Nap time is for the important stuff.
I keep a serious to-do list and I try to prioritize things into categories. Things are either urgent / not urgent, or important / not important. The goal is to stay in the urgent and important categories and not to get stuck working on not urgent, not important items. For example, checking email feels urgent but it’s not – it’s important. Something urgent can be done first, like making a phone call or tackling something else that has an approaching deadline.
Some days nap time is cut short and as frustrating as it can be, I’ve learned to appreciate the time I get with my little one, because there will always be time for work.